As I explored through the play party world finding my own sexual liberation, I began to
crave play spaces that affirmed Black people's existence in BDSM and encouraged and
facilitated conscious kink education. I wanted to attend parties frequented by younger yet
experienced kinksters and regularly scheduled classes taught by Black sex educators and
munches for the Black & polyamorous. While I saw a flyer here or there for events such as
these, it was never consistent enough to build the community I was seeking. So I've
decided to create the community I wanted to see!

The Haüs of Bliss is located in Jersey City, NJ.

There are three key parts to the vetting process:

1. Submitting a vetting form
2. Reviewing the "Pre-Cum Meeting" - an intro video to the Haüs of Bliss
3. Completing a "Pre-Cum Meeting" attestation

To become a member of the Haüs of Bliss an approved vetting form and passed "Pre-cum" attestation are required. If requested, there may be a 15-min interview also scheduled.

Prospective members may access the vetting process here. 

The vetting fee is $77.77 and only needs to be paid once.

While testing is not mandatory across the nation, everyone's safety should be taken seriously - including the immunocompromised. 

All clients/guests of the Haüs of Bliss are required to bring COVID rapid test results with them for each session or event. NO EXCEPTIONS.

Masks are not required.

Haüs rules are outlined during the Pre-cum Meeting, which is a mandatory introductory video included with the vetting form.

Incidents may be reported here.