Community Standards
Haüs of Bliss is a private, members-led community rooted in intentional connection, embodied pleasure, and shared accountability. These Community Standards exist to support trust, clarity, and safety so that exploration can unfold with care.
Haüs Rules can be found here.
i. Embody Emotional Safety & Culture
This community is grounded in curiosity, not judgment. Your choices impact othersā sense of safety and belonging.
- Approach interactions with openness. Members arrive with different levels of experience and language. Questions and curiosity are encouraged.
- Respect is non-negotiable. Treat every member and their experience with dignity. Engage thoughtfully, challenge ideas rather than people, and move away from shaming or dismissive behavior.
- Contribute to the social fabric. Community does not happen passively. Members are encouraged to make an effort to connect, communicate, and engage with others in ways that feel aligned and consensual.
At the same time, openness in Bliss spaces does not create entitlement.
- You are not entitled to anyoneās time, attention, emotional labor, or personal life unless you are explicitly invited in.
- This is a shared space for connection, not a mandatory friend group or dating pool.Ā Relationships within the community are opt-in, self-directed, and built over time.
Embodying emotional safety means holding both truths at once: showing up with care and curiosity while respecting autonomy, boundaries, and personal choice.
ii. Informed Consent & Sexual Health
Consent at Haüs of Bliss extends beyond physical touch to include conversations, timing, capacity, and access to relevant information.
- Honor full-bodied, informed consent.Ā
- Informed consent looks like providing the information needed that would materially impact another's ability to consent.
- Respect boundaries promptly and without debate. A āno,ā āpause,ā or change of mind does not require explanation or justification.
- Choose your level of participation. If a topic, dynamic, or interaction isnāt for you, youāre encouraged to opt out or disengage without pressure.
- Practice sexual health transparency.Ā
- Members are expected to engage honestly and responsibly around sexual health as part of informed consent.
- Play partners have the right to request relevant sexual health information before engaging in sexual activity.
Specific requirements related to sexual activity, testing expectations, and event-level practices are outlined separately in the Haüs Rules document.
iii. Protect Privacy & Confidentiality
Because of the intimate nature of this community, confidentiality is essential.
- Keep whatās shared here private. Personal stories, identifying details, and member information shared within Haüs of Bliss are confidential.
- Do not record, screenshot, or share content. This includes conversations, images, videos, messages, or profiles, unless you have explicit consent from everyone involved.
- Be mindful when sharing experiences. Avoid identifying partners or individuals who have not consented to be named or discussed.
These expectations apply across in-person and online Bliss spaces.
iv. Address Concerns With Care
- Speak up when something doesnāt feel right. You do not need certainty, proof, or immediate clarity to raise a concern.
- Honor safety after disclosure. Retaliation, intimidation, or social punishment toward someone who raises a concern is not tolerated and is considered a serious violation of community standards.
- Repair does not guarantee access or reconciliation. Accountability may involve restricted access or removal from spaces.
Details about how concerns are handled can be found in the Incident Protocol.
v. A Living Agreement
The Community Standards are not static. They may evolve as the community grows, learns, and deepens its collective care.
By participating part of Haüs of Bliss, you agree to engage with these standards in good faith so that a culture where pleasure and accountability coexists can thrive.
They apply to everyone, regardless of experience level, visibility, or role in the community.